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Each year, I told myself it would be different. But instead of entering with confidence, I showed up already bracing for disappointment. I replayed old academic mistakes and awkward moments like a highlight reel of everything that went wrong. And before the school year began, I’d already convinced myself I wasn’t good enough to succeed.
Looking back, I now see how much of my anxiety came from either living in the past or worrying about a future I couldn’t control. I rarely gave myself permission to simply be in the present. It wasn’t until much later—well beyond my school years—that I learned how to shift that mindset.
That growth didn’t happen overnight. It came slowly, through the encouragement of a few mentors and through my own journey toward self-awareness and healing. I eventually learned how to focus on the things I could control: how I responded to failure, how I spoke to myself when things were hard, and how I showed up—day after day—even when it wasn’t perfect.
But here’s the truth I wish someone had told me sooner: your child doesn’t have to wait that long. We don’t have to let them carry the same weight we did. We can teach them now—at the start of a new school year—how to approach challenges with a mindset rooted in presence, effort, and resilience.
Too often, students walk into a new school year holding on to last year’s grades, mistakes, or social struggles. Or they enter consumed with fear about what might happen—Will I get the teacher I want? Will I make friends? Will I fall behind again? These are valid concerns, but focusing on what’s out of their control only adds unnecessary stress.
A smart start is about choosing a different approach. It’s about helping your child focus on what is within their control:
And maybe most importantly, it’s about helping them understand that discomfort doesn’t mean failure—it often means growth is happening. Transitions are hard. But when kids are equipped with the right mindset, those hard moments become stepping stones instead of stumbling blocks.
So as a new school year begins, let’s give our kids the tools many of us didn’t have until adulthood. Let’s show them how to start fresh—not by ignoring the past, but by refusing to be defined by it. Let’s teach them how to stay grounded in the present, where real growth takes place.
My story got better—but it took time. With the right support and reframing your expectations, your child’s story can change too, and it doesn’t have to take years. A smart start begins now. Let’s begin.